So you’re engaged — but how soon is too soon to start planning?
Short answer? As soon as you’re ready.
Long answer? There a sweet spot, and hitting it can make the difference between a calm, joy-filled process… and a chaotic sprint to the altar.
Let’s break it down, shall we?
🕒 The Ideal Timeline: 12–18 Months Before
If you want options, time to breathe, and space to enjoy the process — this is your golden window.
Here’s why:
-Venues and in-demand vendors can book up a year (or more!) in advance.
-You’ll have wiggle room for payment plans, dress orders, and custom touches.
-It lets you make intentional decisions, not rushed ones.
Basically, it gives you space — and space is peace.
⏳ 6–11 Months Out: Still Doable (But Let’s Hustle)
Plenty of couples plan their wedding in under a year. You can absolutely do it — you’ll just need to be decisive, flexible, and maybe say “yes” faster than you expected.
This is when working with a planner (👋 hi!) becomes extra helpful. We know which vendors can pull magic out of a tighter timeline and how to keep things moving without burnout.
💨 Less Than 6 Months?
Let’s call this the fast & fabulous approach.
You’re going to move quickly, keep things simple, and lean into what matters most. The good news? With the right help and the right mindset, short timelines can still lead to unforgettable celebrations.
🔮 The Real Question: When Are You Ready?
Timing isn’t just about the calendar — it’s about your relationship, your budget, your energy, and your why.
Some couples love a long engagement. Others are like “Let’s do this in four months and dance under the stars.”
Both are beautiful. What matters is that it feels right to you.
Final Thought
The “perfect time” to start planning isn’t a date — it’s a feeling.
When you’re excited, aligned, and ready to make it real… that’s your sign.
And if you’re not sure where to begin, don’t stress — just reach out. I’ll meet you wherever you are (even if that’s in your pj’s with five Pinterest tabs open).
Let’s get you started — and let’s make it wondrous. ✨
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Wondrous Event Planners is all about thoughtful details, smooth timelines, and magical moments. We specialize in wedding planning and coordination that feels personal, stress-free, and truly unforgettable. Creating wonders one event at a time is not just our motto, it’s our mission.